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Kira Rikkers's avatar

Wow. You really came for the core gifts I’m right in the depths of discovering and naming. And my word for 2026: devotion. The good news? I’ve identified the need for truth telling. So far though, it’s still sitting heavily. May this decade be the era I step into my wisdom and my truth. Thank you for this clarion call!

Shae Lynn Watt's avatar

Thank you for this. I am not this woman, but I think I’ve felt inadequate for not being her in the past. And it’s helpful to know that it’s not that I need to *be* her, it’s that I need to check in and see if her needs are being met too, and if she feels safe articulating them.

Bella's avatar

From someone that is ginny, I appreciate it deeply. Especially if you reach out first to find 1-1 time together.

Uma Girish/Light After Loss's avatar

Beautifully written, as always. This is such an important piece of crafting circles and I’m so glad you addressed the is. As a projector, “reciprocity” in friendships is a bit g value for me. When things feel lopsided, “bitterness” is the result.

debbie moore's avatar

Yes! I was that child. And.., that adult.

Thank you for this insight & encouragement.❤️

Adge Marz Lindsey's avatar

Oof. I feel this. Thank you for the words. I lived this role for years. Then I moved to a new country and find it so hard to step into a circle. Seems no one is holding the energy. And i am too tired to build it all again…interesting space. May we get the rest we have deserved, since childhood …🩷

Jess Haque's avatar

Wow wow wow…THiS. I feel all of this…thank you for calling us in to this feeling so many of us have, but haven’t named. Yet🙏

Cat Jones's avatar

I feel very seen. Thank you for this download, I am subscribed!